Sharing God's Love through my Journey
Ten years ago, I told my then-husband that we needed to separate and he needed to get his life together. Ten years ago was when he took my 5-month-old and ran into traffic with her. Ten years ago was when an amazing woman entered… Continue Reading “Tell Them!”
So there’s this scene in MAID on Netflix. Alex, the main character and victim of domestic violence, sinks into a couch and into a deep dark abyss.
God also says, “When the time’s ripe, I answer you. When victory’s due, I help you.” Isaiah 49:8 My victory is due and God is here to help me battle and win. October is Domestic Violence Awareness month. Historically, it’s been a rough month… Continue Reading “When victory’s due, I help you.”
October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month – a month where I usually share my journey of where I’ve come from in an effort to raise awareness, spread hope, and share resources. This year, so far, I haven’t felt compelled to share anything. I actually… Continue Reading “To Be Held, #DVAM”
Have you ever been given the gift of a song? I have, and it makes my day. A friend will send me a link to a song and say “This reminded me of you.” It’s a gift. And it always touches my heart. The… Continue Reading “Let Go of Your Umbrella”
I am so glad to be at the end of my series on domestic violence – you have no idea. I have accomplished what I wanted to accomplish and I hope that it reached someone, that it taught someone, that it helped someone. Today… Continue Reading “#1thing – Why did you Stay?”
This is the last day that I’m writing about what domestic violence looks like and it’s the one of the worst. An abuser will use your children to control you. “If you leave me, your daughter will grow up to be a stripper. That’s… Continue Reading “#1thing – Post 7 – Children”
An abuser wants control over their victim – as much control as possible. One of the ways they accomplish this is to slowly remove their victim from their families and friends. Another way is through financial power. Isolation… …looks like jealousy – “You can’t… Continue Reading “#1thing – Post 6 – Isolation & Economics”
Domestic Violence is more than just physical and threats can be more than just physical as well. Domestic violence is about controlling the other person and the means in which someone does that are vast and disturbing. An abuser can threaten to harm you,… Continue Reading “#1thing – Post 5 – Threats”